this place i call home 

stinger's away 

this day this thought this moment in life

What you think about expands . . .
What you focus on WITH PASSION manifests . . .
Any emotional charge you have attached to your thoughts packs a powerful result - in YOUR life . . .
If a focus of your thoughts and feelings is backed by NEGATIVE energy like anger, resentment, jealously, hate, and the like, you will ATTRACT those results in YOUR OWN life ...
Hear that again: If every time you think of your ex-wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend fills you with NEGATIVE feelings (as listed above) , UNFORTUNATELY for YOU, THAT is EXACTLY what YOU will get in YOUR life.
Hmmmm. . . .
The ONLY way out of this mess is to FORGIVE . . . .
What? You can't forgive? What he/she did was THAT BAD?
That bad? Well, do YOU want to live YOUR LIFE like THAT BAD the rest of your life???
You will, unless you forgive.
The only EFFECTIVE way to forgive, is to FORGET . . .!And the only way to forget, is to BE HERE NOW
i must warn you that theae are the words of a positivist, and some phrases to think abou when things get hard and experiences get ugly....

if time flies and spirits recovered

why must a person be made with memories? and further more, why can't we just be who we are without sticking oursleves into them, because as we all know, memories are made to be good and at the same time bad. if ever you get stuck between your own feelings and the feelings corrupted with memories, would you ever want to choose?
today i have learnt that even the longest long forgotten memories are worthy of a second thought, and a third,...and before you know it, it wil glued itself to your thoughts each step of the way,..
but is it wrong to release yourself and actually feel like the memories carry your strength away, while in the other hand you have all the future, waiting to be reached and achieved.